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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m not sure who to talk to professionally about this. I’ve never had therapy or known anyone going. I’m so upset and sick and haven’t slept so I can’t function to find one. I’m working and have my boys- 12/14 who I am having to pretend dads on work trip. He does work in an area it could be believable [/quote] I've been in your position, OP, and I'm so so sorry. Do you need help making a plan? 1) I know telling people is scary, and you don't really know what words to use, but I would beg you to pick up the phone and call your closest girlfriend. I promise this will feel better when you aren't holding it inside. You've done nothing wrong. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You feel in love with someone broken, and who made bad choices, but who among us hasn't? 2) Your employer probably has an employee assistance line that will get you 3 free therapies. It won't be great but will give you practice telling your story. 3) I'm sorry. [/quote]
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