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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]The daughter doesn't get a vote on the person the father marries[/quote]

Yes she does. If my daughter can't stand my GF for whatever reason, I am certainly not going to marry her. I put DD first every time.

Divorced dad[/quote]

+1 -- PP divorced dad.

Also, since I will never remarry, teenage daughter ALSO gets a say on who occupies her living space. The GF is an adult and can deal.

In this situation, it does't sound like either of the older kids care for OP very much. The 18 yo son is ambivalent and the 16 is downright hostile. It's nice that the 12 yo is a little more attached, but just wait until the hormones kick in.[/quote]

Let's hope that she won't vote YOU out of that space.

OP isn't about to move in so let's not talk about the daughter's living space.  If you want to say that every visitor to the house should be cleared with DD, then that's BS.

It's OK for you to not remarry. It's OK for the OP to leave if her boyfriend doesn't want to move forward. Blending families is difficult. Not all will blend.[/quote]

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