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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sexless guy... you actually described yourself being trained by your wife not to have sex.  Have you no self respect?  What you dont understand is that your wife is happy with the situation. Your wife is totally fine staying in a sexless marriage. I dont know her, so I cant say why she likes this arrangement but it is clear she does. YOU are the one who is unhappy. You can say her behavior is forcing you to respond with an undesirable behavior l, but that just makes you look like an immature child. He hit me first!!!  Stop allowing yourself to be treated like a dog. Until you stand up for yourself, express what you need, and have the spine  to follow through and pursue the kind of life you want, you will continue to be a woman-hating bitter sexless rageaholoc who argues with strangers on the internet that your wife forced you to (fill in the blank with the undesirable behavior..  cheat, use drugs, beat her, kick the dog, etc.)  No one buys wht you are selling. No one. Not a single person has said "omg, you are right... it is MY fault my husband cheated because I clearly forced him. He had no other options, really, and now I'm going to fix things by havi g lots more sex with him." [/quote]

Yes to this, mostly.  Sexless guy's problem is he isn't actually cheating as is bitter that he doesn't have the courage to do so.  I know the mentality because I used to stew in a low sex marriage and rage internally that this would be the cause of my cheating.  Once I actually found another woman to have sex with, the rage lifted.[/quote]

Out with the rage, in with the guilt.  [/quote]

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