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Also, I’m the pp who writes that you should get consent from your wives.  I’m writing because you asked:
Married for 28years.  Have been both sides of the issue and can tell you mature people deal with it as 2 people as opposed to making unilateral decisions.
You don’t want to talk to your wife because you want to have your cake and eat it too.  Just selfish. [/quote]

And what should be the consequence of a unilateral decision to not have sex?[/quote]

I don’t what should be the consequence in your marriage.  That’s up to the 2 of you.  It’s your marriage, not mine and so the solution should be yours as well.  I can’t tell you what works for you.

I will also say that there are cycles in marriage and so if you value marriage, think long term and know that things don’t remain the same for any situation (whether it’s sex situation or something lease).

Ultimately, either you’re committed or not.  If you’re not committed, get out.  Don’t cheat.

Anyway, I’m done with this for now.  Anything else I say will just be rephrasing of what I have already said.  Cheating is not right.  No matter what.[/quote]

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