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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Finally, it just seems like there is a lot of wasted potential when brilliant, well-educated women feel pressured to stop working, go part-time, or decide to "mommy-track" their careers in ways that men rarely wrestle with. I feel there's more benefit to society when women don't solely look inward towards their own families, but also use their talents for the good of larger society. If more women work, maybe laws that support working mothers will increase.[/quote]

My sister in Canada did not have to leave the workforce. She was given paid maternity leave for a year for each child she had. Her employment also gives her flexible schedule and she can work remotely.

Yes, US sucks and it is a wasted opportunity and potential.  I think WOHMs should start advocating for paid maternity leave, flexible schedule and work space and EQUAL PAY, instead of rolling over and short charging their own children and families.

No. I refuse to fu*king "LEAN IN" and ignore my kids. The work culture is toxic and exploitative to women, and the WOHMs are complicit in not speaking up against it.  Save the sanctimony and be smart enough to heap abuse on your oppressors instead of being irrationally jealous of SAHMs. [/quote]

I'm the PP.  I'm not sure what specifically you would have working mothers do that we haven't been doing, but I'm all ears.

And for the record, I've never been jealous of SAHMs.  I never knew any growing up.  My mother worked FT, sometimes multiple jobs when necessary.  My grandma worked as a domestic (yes, we're not white).  I'm from a long line of hardworking women, and never saw NOT working as an option.  I am fortunate to have a job that I like reasonably well and get to use my brain, so in that way, my job differs from other women in my family.

It's interesting to sort of watch this debate from the peanut gallery, but I am genuinely interested in what you'd propose working women do that we're not already doing, to the extent we are able.[/quote]

I don't think she gives a fig about working moms.  She's a stay at home who thinks working moms are the devil and she enjoys poking the hornets nest.[/quote]

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