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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't read all the posts but I wouldn't have overreacted, but that is just my personality.  I'm not judging you btw, I understand why this made you angry, It would have angered me too.  I would have walked to the man, said in an strong, but not screaming voice, "please let go of my daughter."  When he let go, I would have said something like: "Next time, when someone says "no" it means "no", you are an adult and should know better.  Please do not approach my child again."[/quote]

And that would have been the correct way to handle this situation. [/quote]

There are more than one correct/right way to react/respond in this case. The woman's way of talking to the guy is fine. The man's way of pushing him off is also OK.

From a man's point of view, when we saw our daughters were in distress (poor little girl must had been frighten when a total stranger physically restrained her and told her to do what he wishes), our parental instinct was to get her away from that situation immediately. Talking to the guy does not guarantee that he will release her arm, and it just prolongs her duress.

Note that the OP did not move when the guy accosted her and asked her to dance. He only reacted when the guy got physical with her.

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