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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just started to watch this show, and I think I am caught up with most episodes. I have a few more episodes in 3rd season to watch. I did not find this chat forum until today and frankly, I was appalled as I read some of these comments.
I am a mother of quads (all boys), and if I had read any of these comments in the first few years of their births, I think I would either have removed myself from this earth, OR, I would have hunted down the people that made the comments.
Lots of you ought to be ashamed of yourselves for writing such comments. Let's look at the parents. Now, it is all fine and good if you want to comment on Adam's sexual preference. He is an adult and can defend or ignore those comments. Even though Danielle is an adult, but to say you won't watch the show b/c she has some help, what is wrong with YOU?  Who do you think you are that deserves to find out that she has any help or not??  :evil: I, for one, thinks that she works her butt off and lives for those girls. If she gets any help, I say  :arrow: GOOD FOR HER!!! 
Another thing is  :arrow:  Why do YOU care if she gets anything free from companies, businesses, family, or friends :?:  Most of you have NO clue how much some of those things cost. Be thankful that they are parents who truly love their children to the ends of the earth.
Yes, we all have our opinions and will continue expressing them, but to be critical and just outright say mean and beyond hurtful things about babies is WRONG!!! Those little babies are growing up and developing their own personalities. They are learning right from wrong and you can definitely see that they understand what is right and what is wrong. Do they always do what is right? Heck NO, and you can't find a toddler, let alone 5 - 3 year olds that will either. That all comes with time.
As for that very sweet little redhead Hazel, some of you can go straight to hell for making those comments. To call her ugly, mentally retarded, and a spoiled brat, is so incomprehensible to me. Imagine sitting there holding your baby while a blood tear rolls down her face after getting operated on, damn right she deserves some extra attention. 
As for those that said the parents laugh when Hazel does something wrong, keep in mind, if you can't find humor in some of the things they do, you'll make yourself crazy.
I don't believe ANYONE on here has put themselves in Danielle's shoes and I would LOVE to challenge each and every one of you that made those disgusting comments, to take care of those babies for 8 hours of one day. NOT even for 24 hours, just 8. Then you come back here and let us know what you have to say.
Sorry for the length of this, but you hit a real sore spot with me. I do believe the people I am referring to, know exactly who they are. Be kind[/quote]

It's a t.v. show and just a snapshot into the Busby's life.  No one on this thread knows the Busby's.  Of course people wonder how they do it and whether or not they get more help than they may let on (like the nanny!).  Danielle manages to find time to stay in shape and she manages to keep her head together after spending 8 hours alone with her small children.....except she does actually have a fair amount of help (preschool, a nanny, friends, sister, Mimi).  I personally don't begrudge Danielle the help she gets.  And I also know that getting 5 small three year old girls up, fed, bathed, dressed, packed up and dropped off for a 2 or so hour stint at preschool is no small task nor is it the huge break that everyone seems to think it is.  In many ways it would be easier to just keep them home.  But Danielle knows that they need to get out, be around their peers and enjoy a change of scene along with fun activities.  She's a good mom.

I'm guessing that Adam's depression stemmed from simply being overwhelmed with the expenses and care of so many small children.  I can't blame him for getting overwhelmed - I think that most people would in his shoes.

Now a question for you  :D .  As the parent of quad boys would you have liked to have done a show like this with your family?  
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