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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are both high achievers. He went to under grad and grad school at ivies but  after few years opted for a gov job.   I am 7 years younger but out warning him. We have two kids. He said when we were contemplating marriage that if we ever needed him to he would go into private practice and earn more. Fast forward 10years and we are still in dumpy apartment w two kids. I'm at my max earning potential. He refuses to leave gov job because he gets off on being on the "good side" and not being told what to do.  I can't host family or send my kids to the local school, am up to my eyeballs in toys, and feel like total failure. Would leave DC any time but he refuses. I naively thought by the time we were at this point we would have household income that would buy decent house in decent school district. We are no where near that.   I guess I'm venting. [/quote]

I grew up in a family with a Dad who worked really long hours.

I would preferred to live in an apartment -- and to have seen my Dad a lot -- compared to the childhood I actually had.

If he is a good father, if he plays with his kids, hugs them a lot, takes them to the park, makes them laugh, and reads to them, then your household is a wealthy one.[/quote]

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