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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When does a marriage become "sexless"? If there was sex at least one time in the marriage can it never be sexless? If there is the prospect for sex at least one more time before one of them dies? Less than once a year?[/quote]

That's a very good question and I suspect it varies by individual preference. What would you consider a sexless marriage to be? People have posted here describing years without sex. Those people would laugh at the OP, who by his own admission has sex once a month. One number I heard was that if a year has gone by without sex, the marriage is sexless. My best friend, during her divorce, was told that she had to be apart from her ex for 1 year, including sexually, and that if they had sex even one time, it restarted the clock. So at least some individuals and states recognize one year as a significant number related to sexual contact.

But go ahead and keep being mad at ME because your spouse isn't satisfying YOU sexually.[/quote]
A widely accepted definition is 10 times per year (see wikipedia and many other sources). OP has posted: [i][b]Op here, terrible sex like once every two months. Initiate and get shut down whenever I do. Last time we did I almost told her to stop because honestly it was less enjoyable than doing it myself but I knew that would hurt her a lot.[/b][/i] Therefore, OP is in a sexless marriage.[/quote]

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