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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Time for your little boy husband to be a man and own up to his youthful insecurities and confess to all his friends that none of what he said about you was true and that he has been living a lie with both you and them. That you are his one true love and that their negativity towards you, all caused by his lies, haunts him and eats at him. That it was time to set things straight and he can live this lie no more. That there will be no more coed "boys trips" where you are left out and that they can accept and appreciate you as a couple or move on from the friendship.

To me, that is the only acceptable solution.[/quote]

It does not excuse the fact that Op's husband purposefully mischaracterized Op to his friends, causing them to snub her and want nothing to do with her.  It does not excuse the fact that Op's husband willingly (and deceptively) went on couples trips w/o his wife because his friends refused to be around her.  He has been badmouthing, lying and deceiving Op since the beginning of their relationship. Op literally recalls his friends snubbing her at her own wedding.

His friends sound like cliquish bullies with their own set of problems and they quite possibly have some screws loose in their own pea brains to treat another person so dismissively and with such outright scorn.  They aren't perfect people - they choose to pal around with Op's husband.  Clearly they have a certain jerk factor about them, birds of a feather....

But the clique is really the least of Op's concerns.  Op has to accept that she is married to a liar who is out for himself and who has treated her like the enemy behind her back.  No sense candy coating it.  Know what you're dealing with.[/quote]

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