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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I really admire you for sticking with it for your children, but I think that you need to understand this is not how marriage or relationships need to be, and that your happiness counts as well. You shouldn’t have to live in the dark corners of your partners life - you should be front and center. Consider what it teaches your children as they get older, about relationships, if you are only part time in their father’s life, despite wearing the burden of regular family life always.

This will sound cruel, but I mean it for you to understand how important you are. Your husband is only groveling because he got caught and if you leave, he will have to answer to why. He doesn’t care that you’re about the leave - he only cares that it changes his narrative about how you are a ball and chain and trapped him and he’s struck.

Simply put: you deserve happiness. Actual, real, happiness. The kind of happiness where you wake up every morning without this stuff.

OP, you deserve to be happy. You only have one life.

Do what you need to do, but know that you are worth your own happiness. Your children are worth your happiness.

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