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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is everyone saying a disrespectful father gets the kids 50% of the time? Is that a new thing? Many dads don’t even know what size clothes their kids wear, what they eat, who their teachers or friends are or anything.  Do they just get divorced and then snap their fingers and grow up?
Sounds like a mess.[/quote]

Yeah and it sounds like the OP's husband wouldn't want split custody given his apathy towards parenting his kids. Although he might go for it 50/50 just to screw with his soon to be ex's finances and then hire a nanny to actually parent the kids.[/quote]

Is this 1960? What bizarre sexist comments. As a 41 year old father of two I'd say there is very little difference between moms and dads these days in regards to parenting. Actual parenting (clothes shopping, grocery buying, cooking, cleaning driving to sports, etc) and not just 'decision making' parenting is even amongst my peer set and I even know a handful of full time SAHDs. Maybe it's because in live in progressive Del Ray that I see this, I don't know but the idea of corporate dad coming home to a clean house, a full dinner and a horny wife as the norm is over.[/quote]

have you actually read the topic? your situation is irrelevant.[/quote]

I'd bet you're one of those freaky moms that feels threatened by SAHDs. It's like you think theyre invading your space. I see it all the time at events.  The alpha clique of SAHMs push the cold shoulder on the few SAHDs there. It's some bizarre form of social isolation. I haven't figured it out yet but it has hints of insecurity and paranoia that their easy world is being figured out.[/quote]

Not threatened. Just think the ones I know are kind of losers.[/quote]

duh
imaging a SAHD trying to elbow his way into a SAHM circle so that he can talk about breasteeding and Christmas decorations 
I mean who wants that, male or female [/quote]

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