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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am the default parent and it is exhausting. My DH acknowledges this, but I really think he has absolutely no idea how much I do.[/quote]

This. [/quote]+1. When we have #2 he is going to get a wake up call![/quote]

Why let him wait for the wake up call?  Why on earth would you have a second baby with him when he is not an equal parent with baby #1?  Here's a wake up call for you -- unless you change things NOW, the likelihood that Baby#2 will actually serve as a wake-up call is slim to none.  [/quote] Because I'm not done having kids. I think having kids with more than 1 man is trashy. I know in this day and age it's not but I just can't get over it and how trashy it seems. Not to mention the logistics of having kids with more than 1 man... So regardless of what happens with our marriage, I'm definitely going to keep going until I feel my family is complete.[/quote]

I thought i was the only one!!

I had a son and wanted a daughter.  Had the daughter then left. I am so glad. I never would have a second child if we had gotten divorced after my son.  I know it works for some but it was a non starter for me. Also I didn't want a blended family that was yours/mine/ours it always seems like the "ours" are the real family and the others are hangers-on[/quote]

You women are sick! We have one child, and DW keeps pining for another, but I don't want another b/c she cannot handle the child she has. Said child is a mere extension of Mom, and not an individual person with his/her own wants/needs/aspirations.  I have two choices now.  Stick it out with DW to protect DC from her craziness or divorce and sue for custody.

DW keeps wanting to have sex, but only if it results in a child. NOT.GOING.TO.HAPPEN.  I said if she wants another, she can get a divorce and find another sperm donor, but I am not signing on for another child unless she changes.

Just the other night, she is trying to be seductive, and in the next moment she is being verbally abusive about she always wanted more children and I won't let her and I am destroying all her dreams and my mother is fat bitch! Ha!  Who wants to sleep with that?

I hope there are not other women on these threads who are as crazy as my DW.  If so, can your DH's and DC get together for mutual support and fun together?  We don't need you and your crazymazking.  
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