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[quote=Anonymous]What seems to be missing from your posts is your husbands perspective. I think you should schedule a time to talk about this with him. It might help you to hash all these issues out with him and he might give you other perspectives you haven't thought of. Prepare him for this conversation by telling him you have emotional anger you need to tell him about. And once you have said the things you wrote here, listen to his response. The point is not for him to get defensive, but to provide more info as to how he does not carry the anger you do. Perhaps there were things that happened in his childhood before you met him that negate the wrong his parents did. Perhaps he is now trying to create a family dynamic he previously didn't have and forgiveness is the only way forward. Try to understand his perspective. It may take more than one conversation.[/quote]
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