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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you repeatedly have stated that you only want advice on how to frame this situation to your children and answer their questions. You need a therapist's help, for many reasons but primarily that your husband has already done psychological damage to your son by having him visit with his half sibling for an extended period of time without telling you. That must have weighed on your poor soon terribly. Even if your husband never specifically told your son to lie, your son certainly at age 6 would have picked up on the fact that his father was clearly not being truthful to his mother (presumably at least occasionally you'd ask where they had been when they returned from a visit), and your son probably witnessed conversations between his father and his affair partner that disclosed information that your son would know was wrong to you, his mother. It is unthinkable to me the level of deception your poor kid has been living for the past year. I'd have any child in those shoes in therapy stat. [/quote]
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