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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP,  you didn't work for this money and you don't deserve it.  That said, you have it, since Thelma was too weak to be a mother to glued daughter while alive and has left you holding the bag.

You have no compassion for Mary and frankly you don't seem to know her very well.  She is a caricature to you.  You don't know how she ended up the way she has,  but what you do know is that she has had the rug pulled out from under her Ina cruel way...not by you, but by Thelma.

I hate inherited wealth.  It is corrosive.  You already sound entitled to this money and defensive about your cousin's supposed Lexi of worthiness to inherit.  I think you're posting here because rep down you know it is immoral to put your cousin out.  And unless Thema prepared Mary long ago for this scenario, what has been done to her is cruel.

You haven't won the lottery or earned this money.  If it were me,  I'd work very hard to help my cousin.[/quote]

MORONIC. Take the time to read the thread before writing something so stupid.

Thelma and her GODDAUGHTER, who is her GODMOTHER for a reason, had a very close relationship. If Mary is so delusional that she didn't see this coming, after 50 years of mooching off her mom, for no reason other than she was too damn lazy and entitled to work like the rest of the world, she doesn't deserve crap. I can't believe all of these people who keep acting like Mary is a victim.

She is a 50 year old who has never done anything in her life. She made choices. She made very poor choices. And now it's time to pay the consequences. FFS.

Larla earned this money by maintaining a good, loving relationship with her Godmother. She is in school, working full time to pay for school. Her godmother probably saw the hard worker she wished her daughter was and decided that she wanted to help her. She is very much entitled to the money and the house.[/quote]

I think Thelma screwed up by not discussing the terms of the will with her family prior to her demise. She left the tough conversations and behaviors (as well as a house!) to those she left behind. Not very generous of her. If she was pissed with her daughter, why didn't she have this conversation long ago? She could have sold the house and gone to a  55+ community. I'm sure her house is not in very good shape, probably a lot of deferred maintenance to be dealt with. [/quote]

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