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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here, 
you all keep saying that I have not warranted this gift. my godmother was not sick when she died but I did love her very much and I still do. my godmother has always made snide remark's about her daughter not wanting to work.  My godmother has always made snide remark's about her daughter not wanting to work.  When my godmother's husband died the daughter expected that she would be set for life but she was not and she would in fact have to get a job she didn't like that idea very much and is basically rejected it her whole life .  Yes she often got degrees and went to work but then realize that she didn't like having to get up every day and go to wood job she wanted to be set for life without having to work for it.

I'm not judging the situation I'm just stating it the way it was I will call when I was 15 my cousin went away and had a job and then she realized that she wanted to be the manager she want to be the boss in charge of the company even though she only had one year of experience.  Perhaps she does have some type of mental problem and I'm perfectly willing to work with her but I don't want to be forced to live with her and I feel like you'll be just as bad to sell the house out from under her.

I feel like the only way my cousin will be satisfied is if I just relinquish the rights to the house and let her stay  and give her the deed to the house.

Also it's not like my godmother didn't know me as a person and didn't see me on a nearly weekly basis and I'm just some random person to her we had a very strong very good relationship ever since I was a very young child. I'm guessing that's why my parents made her my godmother. so I know all of you think that I am not deserving of her inheritance unless I kept her word and with her companion through some devastating disease or something until her death the reality is that's not the case but we had a very good relationship and I love her very much.  so I know all of you think that I am not deserving of her inheritance unless I kept her word and with her companion through some devastating disease or something until her death the reality is that's not the case but we had a very good relationship and I love her very much  [/quote]

I am with you OP. Mary had her whole life to get her act together, and she chose not to, because she is lazy and entitled. For the record, ENTITLEMENT, is NOT a mental health disease, it is a character flaw. Your godmother knew it and so do you. More importantly, you are NOT responsible for Mary. She is f'n 50 FFS. Thelma should have kicked her out of the house a long time ago so that she would be forced to get her life together. She is doing it now. Which to me, is actually a very reasonable, sane, decision. Get the advice of an attorney, get that woman out of YOUR house, and live in/sell the house. [/quote]

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