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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here - before any of the haters start to flame me, I am very appreciative and grateful, DS was not taking longer than any other pre-schooler, and these examples were just two of THOUSANDS of times that he has barked, growled or screamed disrespectful and hateful things 2 inches from our faces. Whatever you think of me (meaning whatever misogyny you project onto OP and other posters like myself - no child deserves to be treated that way.

BTW, while I'm still able to work, I make more money than him and I drag my breaking body to work every day to help support our family. Just not enough to afford full-time caregivers. And if you call me a martyr because I can't walk away - literally - because I want to protect my child, then you clearly don't understand what it means to be a parent. Or a human. [/quote]

As for OP, you are completely deficient in communication skills and credibility. If you have had discussions with H, he obviously never believed you. Or worse, you never had the guts to risk his disapproval by putting your needs on the table.  Please use this singlehood  time to grow some intestinal fortitude to speak your needs in a believable manner. This will go far to make sure that when you meet Mr Right again, it works.

As for PP, same advice. He believes you are weak and has lost respect for you such that he can even get in your face. Regain your voice too. Start saying, even if only in your head, who the h*'ll do you think you are speaking to in that manner?

Same advice to men with loud wives, take your turn to communicate your needs to.  Sounds like a thread of people who, for the most part, don't express themselves well to those who matter, even goes for the women who cheer. No more triangulation!! Express to those only who are the source of tour frustration.[/quote]

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