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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If an "established relationship" exists that he doesn't want to "interfere" with its because he created that by not being involved. Yes mom and daughter are probably tight and have a dynamic that doesn't factor him in because it's been clear for years he has no intention of being involved. He doesn't get to facilitate that dynamic and then use it as an excuse to continue to not be involved. 
Listen. NO MOM WANTS their child(ren) to have uninvolved, absentee dads. A loving relationship with both parents is every parent's goal and crucial for healthy development. Just because she's made the best of her situation doesn't mean it was her situation by choice, don't get that twisted.[/quote]

No !  Just like every mum wants to preserve the family at any cost and not get divorced. Stick to facts[/quote]

NP here. Preserving the family at all costs is not the same as acting in the best interests of your DC. Loving moms don't want good days to disappear, but sometimes they are relieved when shitty ones do.[/quote]

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