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[quote=Anonymous]geez. listen to your gut, OP. I also totally get that the world is not black and white and that he was 21 and that there are ways to drift into terrible patterns without being an overtly horrible person. But he made some bad decisions, it sounds like, and never owned up to them, and hasn't figured out how to make it right. I'm not saying he's a monster, but he's not a good dad. Maybe that will dawn on him one day when he becomes a father on purpose, just how much he shortchanged his first daughter. Maybe. But it should have occurred to him by now. That bit about not wanting to "intrude" on their life also would make me worry that there is some additional level of crazy going on, either with the guy or the mother. Like, she left to get away from him and build a new life. Or he abandoned them for awhile. Or something.[/quote]
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