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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, I'm a woman and [b]I feel entitled to a certain level of sex and physical affection within my marriage[/b]. On demand, whether he is in the mood or not? No, but [b]I would be pretty hurt if he withheld sexual and other physical affection[/b].

I guess that makes me a monster, too.[/quote]

If your H has cancer and is fighting for his life and puking in a bucket and can't get enough energy to care for his children and all you want is for him to put out a couple times a week... I guess you are. [/quote]

Perhaps you can point out for me where in my post I said that I expect sex a couple of times per week under all circumstances, even when he is going through a possibly terminal health issue.

Projecting much?[/quote]

Bolded it for you.[/quote]

You bolded a statement, but not one that said I would expect it if my husband was dying. You are projecting beyond belief. Anyone with even a shred of common sense knows that there are many exceptions.[/quote]

and anybody with a shred of common sense knows that many people have issues... exhaustion, a baby was just born, anxiety, depression, disabilities, etc. There are many issues that get in the way of sex. Cancer is one.

You did not say, I expect sex... except when you have a good reason to not have sex. that is a normal marriage. It's the entitled spouses that are the issue. That is what this thread is about. Why do people feel entitled to sex when their spouses have good reason why they don't want to or can't have sex as much as the spouse wants, why do they feel entitled to sex as often as they want and the other spouse can't be entitled to have sex as little as they want. [/quote]

You are not entitled to as little sex as you want if it is below the minimum level that your spouse wants, because you are not entitled to be married to your spouse. Your spouse is entitled to divorce you if you refuse to have whatever level of sex he or she wants. And the simple fact is your spouse most likely will divorce you if you continue to refuse this minimum level of sex over an extended period. [/quote]

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