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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why are you being so vague about the slur? [/quote] second thread I’ve read lately on DCUM where person alleges a “slur” but won’t say what it is, so it is difficult to respond.[/quote] Cracker, Jew, wetback, gringo, chink wouldn't be bleeped. There is only one word that would be.[/quote] One of these things is not like the other, one of these thins just does' belong . . . . Seriously though, when did Jew become a slur?[/quote] It's a slur when you Jew someone down in price. I hear that all the time. [/quote] Really?! I thought that went out in the 60s or 70s. Wow. Where are you that you hear it all the time? I am Jewish and have never heard an anti-Semitic slur spoken to my face or within my hearing. I have read plenty, of course. I have never heard a racial slur, either, with the exception of "Oriental" used by my grandparents. I had to look up the term "spic." I'd heard of it but wasn't sure which group it denominated. [/quote] Above Asian-American poster here. The other day, a mom referred to my mixed Asian child as Oriental. I didn't feel offended because the mom wasn't trying to be offensive. She had no idea it was not PC. My child did not notice. I didn't mention it. If the parents don't make it a big deal, it doesn't have to be a big deal. We live in a diverse area. I hear a lot of negative conversations regarding poor African-Americans, Hispanics and recent Arab immigrants. No one uses racial slurs but it is highly offensive. These racist opinions exist whether you hear a racist slur or not. [/quote]
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