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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I didn't corner her into anything. You seem like the clingy type. Not everyone sees each other everyday. Sine people earn a living. I didn't force her to do anything and I don't appreciate you saying that I have. [/quote]

OP, a different PP here. I had posted that you two seemed to be missing that spark since you weren't actually that focused on seeing each other. But it sounds now as if you have mutually decided to really invest time and effort in this, so maybe it was just a slow simmer. That can happen, too - like when friends decide they want to be together. So good luck![/quote]

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Agree.  OP, glad it seems to be working out.  Best of luck to the both of you![/quote]

Just continue to work on communicating with your gal for a happy life.[/quote]

WHILE she communicates and dates men behind your back! LOL.  :lol: [/quote]

He didn't SAY he wanted to be exclusive. If someone wants that they have to TALK about that. You have to open your mouth and share that thought - speaking to the other persons ears and then waiting for a response.
Why is this so hard to understand?! [/quote]

I'm going to guess you have a small member. [/quote]

Some of you guys are beastly weird and seem to think that you 'own' a woman because you went out in a few dates.
That's not how it works. 
She can say she doesn't want to be 'exclusive' with you and then it's your choice what you want to do .[/quote]

Absolutely true.  But in this case, the woman never said she didn't want to be exclusive.  She waited until after she got caught cheating to say she wanted to be exclusive.  Why would she be dating other men and probably having sex with them if what she really wanted was exclusivity with OP?  Isn't a person who wants exclusivity obligated to tell the other person that? If she wanted exclusivity with him, she should have told him that BEFORE screwing another man.  When you want something, you ask for it, right? You don't passively aggressively engage in behavior which has a very good chance of ruining the exclusive relationship you claim to want, if you get caught doing it.  She was fine with being non exclusive as long as he continued to think otherwise.
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She's wasn't  cheating she was just dating!
Are people posting here from India? Pakistan maybe? The 1870's?[/quote]

+1. There was no relationship to cheat on! [/quote]

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