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What?  You mean women aren't expected to be mind readers, but men always are?

Listen he didn't say his gf was stupid.    She had to know that dating other guys wasn't acceptable or she would have TOLD him she was going to date around.   Only a woman would attempt to justify that behavior, which basically was cheating behind his back, but she got caught.  If she didn't know it was wrong she would have told him so and broke up with him,  not beg for forgiveness and exclusivity.

You can have all the conversations about exclusivity you want but when it comes right down to it if a woman wants to step out on you she will find a way to rationalize it.   A woman decides whether or not the relationship is exclusive in her mind, the man better be a mind reader and understand what she s thinking, or it's his fault.

How the fuck hard was it for this bitch to pick up the phone and tell OP she was still seeing other men-if not simply telling him in person?

It's obvious she wanted OP to think they were exclusive.   If not why was she ashamed when he caught her cheating ?[/quote]
That's now how it works.  One announces exclusivity when one wants it to happen, and the other party needs to accept. No one is supposed to announce that one is seeing other people.  Non-exclusively is the default unless exclusivity has been brought up and accepted by both parties.  If a man isn't exclusive with me, I certainly don't expect him to pick up the phone and tell me he's seeing others. That would be weird.  And has never actually happened. And yes, if one wants an exclusive relationship (man or woman), but hasn't negotiated one, that person has no right to be upset. [/quote]

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