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OP, you're very ungrateful.  Your husband works hard and sometime 7 days a week.  If you want to be with him hire some help and go on some date nights and plan a get away for the two of you.  If you're still not into him you have two options:
- Allow him to have a lover so he gets that part of his life back
- Divorce him so he can find someone who will love him for who he is and wants to be with him.

You're robbing him of one of the most important parts of a marriage and you're being selfish

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Funny .... are those two options in the DH textbook or something? My DH laid those same options out and when I leaned toward #2 he got upset and said he didn't really mean it, now he's backpedaling and weepy.

We'll see how this all turns out.[/quote]

He should have stuck with it and he's a pussy.  Had you picked two with me guess what bitch, you're out.  There is an abundance of very attractive, nice, intelligent and fun women in the DC area.  You're obviously not one of them.  Too bad for you. [/quote]
He's not a pussy; he is very correctly determining that losing half of your lifestyle and at least half of control over your children's upbringing is a bad thing. He's not crazy for not wanting that. [/quote]

Actually it's because he was trying to manipulate me into some unknown third option. Looking back over the years it is very clear there has been so much emotional abuse, of which this is just about the last straw.[/quote]

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