Reply to Wondering if DW is part of some kind of fight club...

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "Wondering if DW is part of some kind of fight club..."

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

I wish my story was fake. That would save me a lot of grief.

I do have some updates.

-I revisited the issue with the DW when I came back in town this weekend from work. DW is training for a Warrior Dash with a group (mostly all women).  From looking at the flyer she sent me, it appears to be one the the extreme races someone noted earlier. Its suppose to take place in Spring 2016 in MD.  I also finally did get a call back from her instructor (trainer?), and he verified this and acknowledged my DH's participation in his class/training.

-DH definitely misused the word "triathlon."

-DH paid for the sessions via check a week ago. The check hasn't been cashed yet.

Her trainer noted the sessions are only one hour. Its takes 30-40 minutes for DH to get there and back. Lets say it takes her 1.5 hours to complete her training and clean up. I don't see how shes gone more than 3 hours max. Shes gone 5-6 hours. DH says she stays and talks to friends she met at the training. This makes sense, but what are they talking about for 2-3 hours? Her response to this was essentially that its none of my business.

Quite honestly, she is right. 9/10 I usually wouldn't care about this. Its her night out, she can do what she wants and stay out as long as she wants. I can do these on my nights as well.  Still though, I find her response odd because its uncharacteristic of her. Shes never really been secretive with me before. I don't see what the big deal is. I tell her what I'm doing all the time. Mainly because we need to communicate well to handle our little gang. And to keep our marriage afloat.

I feel better about the bruises now that I understand the training. But I don't know why shes being weird about her time after the training. I never probe into her life, and we have never had trust issues regarding cheating, lying, etc. I still plan on hiring a sitter and going towards the latter part of the session.

[/quote]

OP, I'm spitballing here, but maybe she is feeling secretive because as much as she needs this ("this" including the post-workout hangouts with her friends) for her sanity, she probably also feels conflicted about it as a mother. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics