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[quote=Anonymous]OP checking back in. No, I have not had an affair. I'm assuming she has not either, but the more I read DCUM, the more I realize this is a possibility. Yes, I am in IC and we will start MC soon (she has resisted until recently) but our issues aren't particularly unique to a couple married 10 yrs who both work and with a young child. Again, I didn't ask for advice or for an analysis of my situation. Some of those post have been helpful, some less so. The point of the thread was to hear from other spouses who, for one reason or another, no longer find themselves sexually attracted to their spouses. There have been several very good posts to that effect. Of course there have also been many negative attacks but I just chalk that up to what happens on virtually any post on a public internet forum, especially DCUM, and ignore them. I do find it interesting that, while I requested input from both men and women, it has been exclusively women who have described how they have lost sexual attraction for their spouses. I'm curious why there have been no men describing a similar situation. The men who have posted on their own situation have all described how their wives have lost interest in them and not the other way around. I wonder if this is because this phenomenon really is that lopsided towards women or if men are just more reluctant to admit it? [/quote]
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