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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me so mad.

I don't care what the bratty boys were doing. They are family now, and you can't just excommunicate them.
They matter, and the 3 girls matter, and the grandfather matters.

Families figure out how to accommodate everyone, even when it's challenging. That is what families do.

I am absolutely sickened by this thread. 
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If you read this thread and the other you would see that there has been so much stress for months and months trying to accommodate this situation.

What would you do if you were so stressed out from trying everything and then have this happen. SIL agreed and then turned around and flipped out.

[b]If the grandfather matters, shouldn't he be allowed to have a stress free 75th birthday?[/b][/quote]

Not if it means pretending that family members don't exist for convenience' sake.

And the SIL was probably shocked about the OP's request. She probably didn't know what to say and felt embarrassed and humiliated.

What the OP did is honestly unforgivable. [/quote]

Is this the SIL posting?[/quote]

I feel that the SIL must be posting or a lot of people are projecting their own insecurities or just not comprehending what is happening here.[/quote]

Oh come on, OP. Please.[/quote]

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