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[quote=Anonymous]I agree that it was really immature -- sorry that this happened to you! I suppose that she may have been trying to spare your feelings in some way. What if the reason is -- not saying this was the case with you -- that one person finds the other excruciatingly boring although very nice, or they think the person is a terrible kisser? In that situation would you prefer to know the truth or just have calls go unanswered?[/quote]

Well he did make it to date 4.  If it was date 1 or date 2 then OK.  I think once you hit anything after 3 the other person accepts these "flaws" if they are apparent.[/quote]

It could be that if he was really nice and he was "perfect on paper" she tried hard to overlook some really significant incompatibilities, but then she realized that she could not continue to do so. But you do have a good point. Maybe there was just no chemistry but she was trying to give it time, and still there was no chemistry. With no chemistry, though, I would think you could tell that to someone in a nice way. Another option could be that the person is seeing someone else or doesn't want to give up the option to look for someone else.[/quote]

True it could be someone else, but still you give the other person they hey sorry this isn't going to work talk.  Those games are immature and childish.[/quote]

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