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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn't read every single comment here, but I have some random thoughts - Here's how my mind worked when I was in my 20s (female here)

1. Sometimes I really am too tired to go out during the week.  In fact, by the time I was 28, I pretty much stopped going out during the week altogether. 
2. When I first started dating, I didn't know I was supposed to show I was still interested by rejecting a date by offering an alternative. I always thought the guy was supposed to figure this out.
3.  By the 4th date, I usually don't know enough about a person to know if I want to keep dating or not, or be in a relationship. If a guy pushed too hard, my default response was to reject or 'ghost.'  
4. I was notorious (among my friends) for having a phone/cell service that sucked - missed calls/missed texts/etc. In fact, this still happens to this day. I spent the weekend at a friend's farm, and a close friend called me 2 days after I got back, complaining that she called me numerous times and I didn't get a single miscall.  So if a guy were to back away after one unanswered text, it's likely that I never even got the message.

yeah dating sucks. I'm sorry for the OP. He sounds like an awesome person.  I say - keep at it.[/quote]

you sound like a pain in the ass[/quote]

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