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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The other problem with having so many partners now is that now your expectations are higher in marriage and the second the sex life starts to have problems, you star to wax nostalgic about past sex partners and your mind starts to wander.

Most of our grandparents had sex with one person in their entire life.  They didn't have anything else to compare their current sex life well.  Yes, it's better today to have more choice when picking a partner, but there are downsides to that too.  And knowing your current partner has slept with X number of people can raise some insecurities as well.  And put pressure on you to live up to the standards of those other people your partner was with.  It's just all messed up.[/quote]

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Alternatively, people can try partners until they find a partner that they are sexually compatible with and with whom they can spend the rest of their lives I had a dozen partners before DH.  I knew what I liked. I knew that DH and I had good sexual compatibility, as well as the rest of the package.  I didn't have to settle for bad sex for the rest of my life because I didn't know any better.

DH isn't insecure about my past partners. I'm not insecure about his past partners. We had choices and we chose each other.  I had other offers of marriage. I didn't accept them becuase the guy didn't make the grade.  DH feels pretty good about that. :)

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