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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - you were a guest in your mother beach house. I am sure she went to a lot of trouble to host you and your young family and your sister and her family. Yes, she said something a bit mean - but you made a huge deal by leaving and ruining the vacation. Why couldn't you have simply called her out on it and said - hey Mom, I didn't realize these were for the kids; I'm starving. You should have said something right away. Instead you let it fester and you embarrassed your family by storming out. (Even if you left quietly, it is essentiallly storming out.) Also, you are probably an overly sensitive sleep deprived new mother so there is that to consider. This is your mother who was trying to provide a nice family vacation for everyone. You say she has been "toxic" for years. It sounds like you are passive aggressive. You should have let it go (or called her out on her words right away.) Leaving made the whole thing 100x worse.[/quote] T[b]here is no embarrassment unless other people are present. Embarrassment requires spectators. [/b] The first thing about providing a "nice family vacation for everyone" is to get enough fucking food in the house for everyone. Then she wouldn't have had to ration food by assigning it to different family members. [/quote] Right because nobody noticed OP's family left.[/quote] They better have fucking noticed. Her mother was being a complete cunt. There are consequences when you behave badly. Mom is a misbehaving bitch= off spring don't have to put up with it. Simple. The only person who is embarrassed here is mother. She was called on the carpet. It's why she doubled down. What a piece of work. Op I think you wrote you are in therapy up thread. Good for you. Looks like we have a number of commenters here that may also be in need of some help. They can't recognize boundaries being crossed and abusive behavior. [/quote]
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