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[quote=Anonymous]I'm In a similar boat OP.  I have a GREAT husband.  There would be a line of women waiting for him if we divorced. He'd be remarried in a hot minute.

As my children has gotten older, it has become apparent to me that I made my bed and now I have to lay in it.  There are some facts here that you and I need to face:

1. We made a poor choice.  We cannot just take someone's heart and crush it. These are GOOD people who didn't do anything to deserve the kind of blow it would be if they knew the truth.

2. WE have children now that love their father.  It would be criminal to force him to be a weekend parent, because that is exactly what would happen if we divorced.  We'd both get the most custody due to their work situations. My kids would be devastated if they could not see their dad every day. I won't do that to him or my kids.

3. We are given one life.  WE blew it in the marriage department. The ship has sailed and we should have done a better job up front. Thems the breaks. We have to find other things that light our fire because it's not going to be our spouses. Could be worse, we could be women in an Islamic country. That would be true misery.

4. You will need to do mental gymnastics to have sex with him.  You will have to turn out the lights and turn on your imagination. You will need to tell him what you want in bed (though that probably won't help too much since our problem is chemistry).

Basically, suck it up buttercup. I've been doing this for 20 years with this guy. It gets better and his sex drive will start to diminish and hopefully he won't want to try Viagra.[/quote]

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