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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need therapy.[/quote]

I have tried therapy in the past for a different issue and it never worked. I wanted actual advice but all I got was "what makes you think that?" "Why do you feel that way?" Etc. etc. which made me want to scream out of frustration.[/quote]

Because you have to work through your issues! Answer the hard questions, do the work. Otherwise I predict you will have similar issues if you ever date/remarry. This is your issue, not your husbands. Don't break up your family until you've tried everything.[/quote]

She doesn't have any issues. She married a man that she has no chemistry with. This is unfixable. The only way she can figure out how to tolerate is to close her eyes and have a good imagination.[/quote]

her issues is that she thinks that, at age 40 and with 2 kids, she is entitled to a passionate relationship in addition to everything else.[/quote]
She is entitled to passion. I'm 37 with 2 kids and have a lot of passion for my husband and enjoy a healthy sex life.   However, she should have married someone else if she wanted that.[/quote]

What?  She was entitled to passion when she was 33.  Then she made the CHOICE to marry someone she had no passion for, STAY with him for 6 years, and have two children.  There are three other people affected by her decisions now, so she's not entitled to anything unless she considers them too.[/quote]

She was not entitled to passion at 33 either. Entitlement is a false sense that you are somehow due to get certain things from life. But in fact nothing in life is guaranteed, not health, not happiness, certainly not passion in marriage or even at the beginning of a relationship. some people get some things and others get other things from life, it's that simple.[/quote]

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