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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need therapy.[/quote]

I have tried therapy in the past for a different issue and it never worked. I wanted actual advice but all I got was "what makes you think that?" "Why do you feel that way?" Etc. etc. which made me want to scream out of frustration.[/quote]

Because you have to work through your issues! Answer the hard questions, do the work. Otherwise I predict you will have similar issues if you ever date/remarry. This is your issue, not your husbands. Don't break up your family until you've tried everything.[/quote]

She doesn't have any issues. She married a man that she has no chemistry with. This is unfixable. The only way she can figure out how to tolerate is to close her eyes and have a good imagination.[/quote]

her issues is that she thinks that, at age 40 and with 2 kids, she is entitled to a passionate relationship in addition to everything else.[/quote]
She is entitled to passion. I'm 37 with 2 kids and have a lot of passion for my husband and enjoy a healthy sex life.   However, she should have married someone else if she wanted that.[/quote]

What?  She was entitled to passion when she was 33.  Then she made the CHOICE to marry someone she had no passion for, STAY with him for 6 years, and have two children.  There are three other people affected by her decisions now, so she's not entitled to anything unless she considers them too.[/quote]

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