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In our early 20's we dated guys who treated us like shit. They weren't alphas, just horribly mismatched and they didn't have the balls to break up with us, so they treated us badly.  [/quote]

Well, also girls like to date popular guys so they can gain social status and brag to their friends. The popular guys at those ages are assholes, so it kind of comes with the territory. [/quote]

Nope, not me and my friends. None of us were particularly popular. And I have a thing for geeks and nerds. And by your statement, you make it seem like daing in your 20's is like dating in HS. Everyone I know left the popularity ranking back in HS. By the time we were in college, we were happy in our (what would be unpopular in HS) tribes. Even the Geekiest guys could get dates. And even 'fat girls' who had confidence were dating (meaning, the girls who thought that being fat kept them from the dating game, just had really bad self-esteem and *that* is what was turning guys off). [/quote]

So, you were happy dating in your tribes and yet, as the other PP says, you dated guys who treated you like shit? Not sure how to reconcile those two propositions. [/quote]

Guys in our tribe can't also treat us like shit? Women only date popular, alpha guys? Only popular, alpha guys can treat women like shit? WOW...

We were happy in our tribes. We found people we had lots in common with. We left the need to be 'popular' in HS. But we did date guys, from our tribe, who we weren't good fits with. The relationships just weren't working out and the guys treated us like shit. They didn't have the balls to break up with us and we were told we had to 'work hard' to make a relationship work, so we stayed with them for too long. I'm FB friends with many of them and they now are good guys. But in our early 20's, they just didn't know how to act in a relationship.

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