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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think counseling is in order, but not divorce. If I understand correctly, he didnt cheat while they were married. i think its a big difference between cheating while married, and cheating while living in separate cities.[/quote]

OP here. He cheated before we were married, during our engagement. We lived in separate states for much of this time, before moving to a new state and living together for several months before we married. The physical/emotional relationship he had with an ex stopped once we relocated. He did continue to trade flirty texts/pics with a different old flame however during the time we were cohabitating/engaged, before our wedding. He claims he knew this was all wrong and ended everything before we married, and I've seen the emails to prove it ended with each of these people. The fact is he cheated and was deceitful. I get it how some say "if it was before marriage, then it doesn't count, not a big deal." But my obvious concern is that this will continue, sometime, sooner or later, because if he did before, and almost got away with it, why wouldn't he do it again? This is what we're each working out with our counselors alone, and I imagine will tackle when we start couples counseling.[/quote]

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