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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if you tell your husband that you aren't enjoying sex and he doesn't seem to care? I finally got the courage to tell my husband sex wasnt doing anything for me 2+years ago. I told him we should buy a nice upholstered, armless chair bc the few time i've enjoyed sex was when we were an in upright position. so here we are , two years after me telling him and still without a chair and I still do not enjoy sex even though we do it 2-3 times a week. I work out and stay in shape and am generally a nice and happy person. I thought that a man, whether he's a husband or not, would jump at the idea of buying an item that his increase his parter's sexual satisfaction, but what do I know. I realize I could buy it myself, but frankly, I'm pretty much over it.[/quote]

This right here is a perfectly reasonable reason to withhold sex.  You just tell him you aren't going to have sex until he is ready to take care of your needs. But the key is when you deny him let him know exactly why.  Most women will just give the cold shoulder.  I know it might be hard for a woman to believe, but no man is going to pick up on the fact he isn't getting sex now because he didn't buy a chair TWO YEARS AGO.[/quote]

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