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No, what I want is for him to meet my needs because he loves me and wants me to be happy, not throw some crumbs at my needs in order to get sex. Believe me, there's nothing loving about that.

I read this thread and I can't help but wonder why you all want more sex with your wives. If it's just about orgasms, you can get some online porn and get yourself off. Is it about wanting intimacy with your wives? I supposed it might be, but it doesn't sound like it when it seems like you resent the hell out of being asked to do anything for her to actually foster that intimacy.[/quote]

What (your DH) wants is for you to meet his (sexual) needs because you love him and you want him to be happy, not just throw some dead fish sex at him in order to get him to leave you alone for two more weeks.  Believe me, there is nothing loving about that.

In all these shitty relationships this is probably the two sides of the same coin, sort of a chicken/egg sort of thing.  Neither side wants to give an inch either, so here you are.

Sex is extremely important (like on the neurochemical level) to intimacy for males.  It is not just about ejaculation.

Next time he does some chores, beat him to the punch initiating.  Give him some un asked for good loving and see what that does to his attitude.[/quote]

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