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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

I read this thread and I can't help but wonder why you all want more sex with your wives. If it's just about orgasms, you can get some online porn and get yourself off. Is it about wanting intimacy with your wives? I supposed it might be, but it doesn't sound like it when it seems like you resent the hell out of being asked to do anything for her to actually foster that intimacy.[/quote]

It's obviously about much more than orgasms or getting off for most men.  And you aren't being very charitable.  What you are hearing from these guys is despair because they have tried everything they can think of to improve the situation and it hasn't worked, and the advice they get on how to improve things does not generally improve things, and often seems structured to put the blame on them no matter what they do.

It seems easier for many here to blame them because the alternative---when sexual interest is gone, it is often gone for good and isn't coming back---is profoundly destabilizing to marriages.  [/quote]

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