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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it sounds like you have very high expectations of others, as if they must be perfect. You also do seem to react very strongly, and you hold onto things for a long time. You also seem to have black and white thinking.

If you put all that together, you get people around you who fear being honest with you because they know it will upset you and you will hang them until they are dead. And these people don't seem to have it in for you. They sound like average people who care about you, or at least care about not upsetting you.

You do need therapy to address your issues.

What you're dealing with is nothing like the betrayal of multiple lies and cheating, and is nothing like having a MIL who constantly lies and covers for her son's behaviors or what she imagines he might be doing. Trust me, I've lived that.

Your life and everyone around you will be more happy and peaceful if you can work through your issues with a therapist and start letting go of this need for perfection and control. [/quote]

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