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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Basically, OP complains that his wife has little redeeming value, and the response is that he needs to jump through hoops to "romance" her.

Maybe she could put in a little effort herself. [/quote]

Actually he said she's a great mother.  If a woman had said her DH was a great father but had gained weight and wasn't sexy anymore you would excoriate her and say she should be grateful for such a great man.  Such bs. [/quote]
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bull.fucking.shit

women will just cheat - as many have professed here on multiple threads and have said they do it for the very reason their H is no longer sexy to them - making them no better/no worse.  The DCUM hags relentlessly beat up the guy in the course of 10+ pages - if the roles were reversed, and if men had flamed at a female OP, wow, the shit would really hit the fan as the hags would blindly rally around the OP.

OP - go for whatever makes YOU happy.  [/quote]

Right.  Any woman who disagrees with you is a hag.  And OP should do whatever he wants with no regard for his wife or children. Gee, I wonder why you have trouble with women.  And you are totally full of it.  [b]No one has encouraged wives to cheat.  Most wives don't.  We work to make it better or we put the kids first and ourselves last. I'm sure that's unthinkable to you[/b]. [/quote]

yeah, keep dreaming.   who's the one in the news today accused of fucking a 15 year old?[/quote]

Right, because when men do it it isn't even newsworthy.  Are you honestly claiming that women cheat more than men?  Good luck backing that up.[/quote]

nope, it's the haggish women here who believe that they, and all women, can do no wrong.  that whatever is wrong with the world is a man's fault.  fascinating that even you had turn that horrific news item around.[/quote]

Oh, ok.  I see.  You can't support the statement that most women cheat.  So instead it's "most women on DCUM cheat".  Ok.  OR just "most women who think this guy is a loser cheat".  Well, here's a data point for you -- I think you and this guy are big time losers, and I have never cheated and never would.  Despite many opportunities.  Happily married, to an actual good man who I respect and who respects me.  Who would never leave me for gaining weight or going through a dry spell.  Because we're in it for real.  And because we put our kids before ourselves.  And we put each other before ourselves.  WE simply do the best we can every freaking day.  But go with your narrative that because I think that a man just blaming his wife for the lack of sex and saying he secretly plans to leave her is wrong, then clearly I'm a hag and a cheater.  Naturally.  It can't be at all that I just have standards that are higher than that.  
If you were at all honest with yourself, you should examine your issues with women.  Because this "they're just hags" approach has a name.  It's misogyny.  And I bet it's interfering with your life.[/quote]

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