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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mothers: How many sex partners would you want your daughters to have prior to marriage?

How many is too many?  Is there too many?  At what age should they start having sex?

Honestly - what advice would you give your daughter if she asked you for it and insisted on you giving her a concrete number?

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Hmm.  I can only base it from my experiences.  I would say not to start having sex before 17. I think at a younger age it is too easy to get derailed and wrapped up in that relationship, unable to function solo.  However, waiting until college can be dicey because it is more of a hookup culture and I think less likely the guy will really know/care about you as a person as the high school boyfriend would.

Hard to give max or min because I could imagine DD getting married between 25-35 and that being typical.  Ten years is a big span in terms of partners.  So I would say 4 or 5 partners before marriage should be enough idea to know what is out there but I think knowing what you like and taking control of your sexuality so to speak is important. My mom made sex sound like this scary thing ...and I think going too far that direction is wrong.  A healthy marriage should have a vibrant sex life so I don't want to teach my kids it is this bad thing.[/quote]

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