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Typically (not always), a man's sex drive is a lot more straight forward. That means he understands it better and when asked can give his spouse more reliable information.

A woman's sex drive is (often) more complicated. What makes it even more complicated is that, sometimes, it works in ways that are not entirely compatible with how she would like the overall dynamic of the relationship. What if - for example - the dynamic that would really get the woman revved up is where she gives some token resistance which her spouse overcomes to show her how hot and desirable he thinks she is and then he picks her up, hauls her into the bedroom, and throws her on the bed?

But, maybe it's tough to let him know this. First, maybe it's embarrassing. Second, maybe by *telling* him, it doesn't work -- part of what makes it hot is that he finds her so desirable, he just has to have her in spite of her resistance. Third, maybe this fantasy is at odds with her desire to have the overall relationship be entirely equal and of course have him understand that "no means no."

It's all very complicated. So, instead of telling her husband that, she says, "Oh, I'm always so tired. Maybe if you did the dishes more, I'd be more likely to want sex." But, somehow, no matter how diligently he scrubs, she's always just so tired. [/quote]

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