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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found people who allegedly very smart and educated simply don't plan and look ahead to a life raising kids. They plunge in and then are somehow SHOCKED at hard and expensive it is. When my DH started pushing for a family (I had told him I didn't want children) I told him how much daycare would be, he screamed "But that is as much as our mortgage!" Yep, I told him. We compromised on 1 child, and he worked from home while I kept my much more stable job. We had a very modest 3 bedroom home. [/quote] :roll: oh FFS Imagine thinking systemic economic and political issues affecting millions in the US, not to mention globally = people didnt plan. Also really insightful coming from someone who didnt want kids. Lastly, using modest in your post is all kinds of reckless. [/quote] Excuses, excuses. I concur the setup is rigged against families, but you have to play the hand you are dealt. My starter home was a 3/2 cinderblock we could pay on one of our salaries. We might still be there if we hadn't switched states. [/quote] Cost of housing is driven by location, school quality etc. the actual construction is generally a smaller factor. [/quote]
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