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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex called the school district office saying he didn't want me to enroll the kids in the district.  The district called me to find out what was going on.  I said yes I am planning on enrolling them as the kids live with me full-time which was the truth.  We had nothing filed in court yet.  They couldn't stop me from enrolling the kids in the school district.  And neither could my ex.  [/quote]

Ok you told the truth.

Do you know there is a difference between telling the truth, and telling  a lie, (fraudulent enrollment), which is what OP's husband would be doing if he did the same thing?[/quote]

No one is saying that it would be ethically OK for OP's husband to take the kids on a "vacation" and then refuse to bring them back.  No one is saying it would be OK for OP's husband to enroll the kids in a new school without her input.  No one is saying it would be ethically OK for him to lie to the school about where their mother is.  But until something is filed establishing who the kids are at which times, he could do those things.  The system would allow it.  Eventually, if OP filed, it's quite possible she would get the kids back, but it could be a long expensive and traumatizing process for her and the kids, and the odds aren't as good as they would be if he was in contempt.  So, moving quickly and getting a court order now would both make it less likely that he will try to keep the kids in the other state, and if he does get try to keep them, less likely that he will be successful.   [/quote]

She doesn't need a court order at this time.  All thats happened is her husband told her he wants to move out of state (she doesn't say where) and would like to have the kids with him for a good part of the summer (she doesn't say for how long either).

The kids are still living with her right now.  If she was afraid he would snatch them and kidnap them then she would have already had her attorney file a divorce complaint and an application for a TRO.  That could have been done by now

If OP wants to divorce she should have her attorney file the divorce complaint.  Then the kids are under the local courts jurisdiction and she can also have the TRO signed.

Maybe she has done this already.  If not she sure shouldn't have waited until a long holiday weekend.

Once you get the attirneys involved making possibly false allegations the fees will skyrocket so that's not the best approach to divorcing.  It should be amicable.. 
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