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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me so thankful I’m a lesbian married to a woman.[/quote]

This thread makes me so thankful I'm a woman married to a real man, you know, one who actually cares for his children and doesn't treat his wife as an employee. [/quote]

Now tell me about what a "real woman" does. Or better yet, let your husband tell me.  :roll: [/quote]

Sure, if you are still able to read after rolling your eyes so hard. A real woman does what a real man does, you know, actually care for their children and not treat their husband like an ATM. It's not difficult. [/quote]

So a "real man" and a "real woman" do the exact same things? Interesting...[/quote]

Yes, when they have kids they should. Sorry that’s such a hard concept for you to grasp. [/quote]

This is silly internet talk that even you do not believe. Men and women are not the same, not matter how much people like you try to fight it.[/quote]

I’m silly because I expect both a mother and a father to actually PARENT? Look, I’m sorry your husband sucks, but not all of us need to make ridiculous arguments about how men aren’t biologically conditioned to raise children in order to justify our lives. [/quote]

You are silly because you expect them to embrace the same parenting tasks.  Nature and evolution spent millennia making men and women different, and you'd ignore that for your politics.  Young babies need mothers far more than fathers.  I don't know why so many women refuse to embrace their feminine natures, but it's not helping anyone--the women themselves nor, more importantly, their children.  [/quote]

Watching my husband fall in love with his children was incredibly awe-inspiring. He rearranged his life to be available to these two small people and they are still front and center in his thoughts and plans 2 decades later.  And the thing about it is that he really isn’t out of the norm.  Many men will nurture and care for their children much as many women will do so.  Blocking the opportunity of fathers to bond with their children is cruel (and men that allow themselves to be cut out by their wives because “biology” need to do better). You need to retire your tired tropes - they don’t do anyone (mothers, fathers, children) any good. [/quote]

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