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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread makes me so thankful I’m a lesbian married to a woman.[/quote]

This thread makes me so thankful I'm a woman married to a real man, you know, one who actually cares for his children and doesn't treat his wife as an employee. [/quote]

Now tell me about what a "real woman" does. Or better yet, let your husband tell me.  :roll: [/quote]

Sure, if you are still able to read after rolling your eyes so hard. A real woman does what a real man does, you know, actually care for their children and not treat their husband like an ATM. It's not difficult. [/quote]

So a "real man" and a "real woman" do the exact same things? Interesting...[/quote]

Yes, when they have kids they should. Sorry that’s such a hard concept for you to grasp. [/quote]

This is silly internet talk that even you do not believe. Men and women are not the same, not matter how much people like you try to fight it.[/quote]

I’m silly because I expect both a mother and a father to actually PARENT? Look, I’m sorry your husband sucks, but not all of us need to make ridiculous arguments about how men aren’t biologically conditioned to raise children in order to justify our lives. [/quote]

You are silly because you expect them to embrace the same parenting tasks.  Nature and evolution spent millennia making men and women different, and you'd ignore that for your politics.  Young babies need mothers far more than fathers.  I don't know why so many women refuse to embrace their feminine natures, but it's not helping anyone--the women themselves nor, more importantly, their children.  [/quote]
Good lord. This tired trop.

Women aren’t “refusing to embrace their feminine natures”. They still breastfeed and care for their children. Their feminine natures are nation-building, hunting, threa+ assessment, building, etc. What men do is refuse their humanity. Did you know that men’s biology changes in the wake of having children? Their hormones literally change too. So why do they opt out of caring for children? Men demonstrate what they think is masculinity by working out of the home and being a one-dimensional being. What’s actually masculine is engagement with your family, true protection, true vulnerability that allows you to gain strength from your partner and community, and serving the women in your life. Men are so lost and women are so tired of doing all the work. They don’t even know how to be a person. 
(Sorry for the weird characters, dcum is censoring something)[/quote]

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