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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you don't have absolute definitive proof (not hearsay) and even if you do and it's not directed at you just keep quiet. It's tough to hear that as a spouse and they'll probably ignore you and create a rift anyways in the group. Also you don't know what's going on in their own lives.

HOWEVER if they try anything with you I would let their partner know that you're not comfortable with their advances and then mention. If not, just keep quiet and mind your own business. [/quote]

All the proof talk and you don know what is going on in their lives is total cheater bs.   There is rarely enough proof for a cheater to be honest and when people behave questionably that should be enough for a friend to say something.   An outsider doesn’t know what is going on in their relationship, but the insiders should both have a shared understanding of their life.

Reality matters to people (excluding cheaters), so an actual friend would at least say what they have heard and give their friend the chance to figure it out.   It could just be innocent flirting, but in my experience innocent flirting is rarely the subject for the rumor mill.  Smoke meet fire.

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