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[quote=Anonymous]"-I ended up staying after a very brief separation. He did intensive therapy, an outpatient alcohol program, left his job (where the AP was) and has only worked at jobs which require minimal travel. Most importantly, we signed a post-nup with a cheating clause bc I made it very clear that I'm not going through this again." This is really striking. He really went all out to address whatever led him to have the affair and took drastic measures to make sure he didn't repeat it. Good for him. Not many people are able and willing to do this. I'm curious about what sort of therapy or work you did on yourself to manage through all the emotions and legal matters involved? I'm so glad to see you did a post-nup. That was so smart![/quote]
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